Sacred moments, how are these defined? Are they marked by goosebumps and hallelujahs intertwined? Are they comprised of rituals and ordinances, washing feet, baptism, and partaking of bread and wine? How do we describe a sacred moment or sacred space? What is sacred and how can I be sure when it truly takes place?

Sacred; a holiness, separated from the normative, the moment of body, soul, spirit connectedness. A sense of peace, inner joy, and rest. The kind of space that reminds you of God’s providence, or God‘s omniscience, or omnipotence, or simply bask in the love and promises found in God’s presence.

Divine moments occur on a daily basis, yet we miss them because we look for the oasis or some other extravagant replacement. As a chaplain I see them regularly with staff and patients, if I have patience.

Through providing an empathic listening ear, I hear stories some people would never share. Trusted with the pain, hurts, shame, and fears. Their burdens and worries; they trust that I care … Sacred moments

Initiating a relationship of care and support provides safety and a sense of rapport. Trust issues and deep wounds can be explored. Brokenness becomes transparent working together to reach the core…Sacred moments

Providing supportive pastoral presence. A sacred space to sit and reflect in. He holds her hand as tears run down his face to his neck and I sit with him, hand on his shoulder, a silent prayer is said then, this is the space where God and pain intersected… Sacred moments

Exploring faith, fear, anxiety, and hope. This is necessary, the patient is learning to cope. Lost home and nowhere to go and lost clothes, his only shelter, his tent was stole. But here in this room, he’s not alone. The care and support shown provides a week clean, now that’s his personal milestone… Sacred moments

Facilitation of life review brings an uplifting mood. Storytelling and pictures shown assist in the journey through. The memories of vacations and holidays displayed are just a few… and don’t forget auntie on the cruise and the story of the balcony view… Sacred moments

Moments of birth, a sweet baby’s touch. The moment a toddler walks and falls, don’t worry, she is tough. The cries at night and warm nightly hugs or even the first time he says “Daddy, I love you so much” … Sacred moments

Divine moments occur on a daily basis, yet we miss them because we look for the oasis or some other extravagant replacement. As a chaplain I see them regularly with staff and patients, if I have patience.

—

FCM Member Rev. Dr. Phill Parris is the Regional Vice President of South Central. He is a hospice chaplain in Wichita KS, a published author, and a poet. He follows the way of Christian Mysticism.